Wednesday, August 20, 2025

Which Song Won The Oscar-1995

This is 1995, 30 yrs ago! I can't believe it because it seems so modern. I'm joining in for freebie week over at Monday Music Moves Me. Let's see if you can guess which song won the Oscar  which one was nominated and which came up empty-handed in all areas..here are the 3...

1. CANCION DEL MARIACHI BY LOS LOBOS AND ANTONIO BANDERAS


This is from a fun flick, "Desperado" starring Antonio Banderos and Selma Hayek and it includes a lot of great music. When you look back, Hollywood always had a love for Mexican music starting in the 1940s. I love this soundtrack.

2. COLORS OF THE WIND SUNG BY JUDY KUHN

This song is from Pocahontas, with music by Alan Menkin and lyrics by Stephen Schwartz, which depicts a nice sweet gal without any tattoos unlike the real Pocahontas who was covered in them and, died at 21 from, I believe, smallpox or pneumonia or TB…they are not sure.  

3. YOU'VE GOT A FRIEND IN ME SUNG BY RANDY NEWMAN

This was written by Randy Newman for "Toy Story", a funny and endearing animated movie that we all know well. Frankly, there's something about Randy that just makes me want to bitch slap him upside the head. 

On that lovely note, which song won the Oscar, which was nominated and which came up empty-handed. 

Thursday, August 14, 2025

Who Should Have Won Best Actress-1941

 

1941 was a big year for “ WTF won” due, mainly, to Citizen Kane not winning in almost every category and I do agree but I am going to talk about Best Actress because this is the year Joan Fontaine won over her sister, Olivia De Havilland. I can’t stand Joan Fontaine. As an actress, she is good, but the actress is a self righteous snot who portrays herself as  someone who always took the high road but she didn’t. I can’t stand say this because I read her autobiography and I just wanted to bitch slap her. I worked with someone like her and she was good at portraying a caring person but they are clearly narcissistic. These 2 sisters are famous for their hatred of one another and their competitive natures came out big time this year. Olivia was the expected winner so it was an upset when Fontaine won and as she made her way to the podium, Olivia stood to congratulate her but Fontaine snubbed her as she headed up to claim her Oscar. Needless to say, you know I won’t be choosing her as the winner, in my book.

1. BARBARA STANWYCK IN BALL OF FIRE


I easily could have gone with Bette Davis for her brilliant performance in “ The Little Foxes” but as I kept thinking about the roles, I felt that Stanwyck’s performance in this film and in “The Lady Eve” were stellar and much more nuanced in her role as a gangster’s moll who holds up in a place where the cops could not find her, a group of old professors except for a bewildered and innocent man, Gary Cooper, who, also, lives there. He went to her club to learn the slang of the day since he is writing a book on slang terms not knowing that she is in with a big mobster. As she stays within those walls, her hard heart begins to soften for the elderly men and she begins to feel something more for Cooper when in comes her Mobster boyfriend. Stanwyck can play a hardened gal but also a softened girl and she makes it believable. She was the best in this film and in “The Lady Eve” which she was equally excellent but wasn’t nominated for that role opposite Henry Fonda. 

2. IRENE DUNNE FOR PENNY SERENADE

Irene Dunne is one of the best actresses to never have won an Oscar and she was nominated many times but, strangely, not for this tear jerker Romance film  co-starring Cary Grant who plays her husband. The 2 meet in Japan, marry and are happy to learn she is pregnant but before you can say, uh-oh, an earthquake hits and she loses the baby. They move back to California and, at the suggestion of their friend, they decide to adopt. There are some humorous moments like when they have no idea how to change a diaper but also some gut wrenching scenes that showcases Grant’s acting ability as much as Dunne’s. She was so good in this film and helped evolve her character into substance creating a melodrama that I really enjoy watching.

3. JOAN FONTAINE IN SUSPICION


Yes, Joan won for her role in Suspicion  directed by Alfred Hitchcock and, don’t get me wrong, she is good as the wife of potential killer, Cary Grant but she didn’t deserve the Oscar as the nervous wife of cad, Cary Grant who can’t seem to hold down any job. In fact, I think Hitchcock should be recognized for his ability to make this actress look good in her role here and in “Rebecca”. Here, she goes against rich daddy and marries schemer, Cary Grant who, annoyingly, calls her monkey face. As time goes on, she believes her husband could be a murderer and becomes more on edge wondering when he will make his strike against her. The film is good despite the ending but, it was the time of the studios who had the last say, so I can forgive their oversight. I love Cary Grant who always delivers and Fontaine was able to capture a very nervous woman who just needs a good bitch slap.

Have you seen these films? Do you agree or would you pick someone different? 

Wednesday, August 13, 2025

Mid Summer Times

 


FYI- This is my friend's cute little doggie, not mine nor my pool:). It is mid summer, although I always think of July as mid summer, and summer seems to last into September when it used to be getting rather rainy and colder when I was young…I hate climate change which does exist, sadly. Right now, we have been having temperatures at 32-34C( 89.6-93.2F) but with the bloody humidity it feels more like 44C or 111F. My glasses fog up and I have a hard time breathing…I hate this weather. Anyways, venture over to Curious As A Cathy who co-hosts Monday Music Moves Me…here are my choices:

1. STEAM HEAT SUNG BY CAROL HANEY WITH BUZZ MILLER AND KENNETH LEROY-1957


It is mid summer, although I always think of July as mid summer, and summer seems to last into September when it used to be getting rather rainy and colder when I was young…I hate climate change which does exist, sadly. Right now, we have been having temperatures at 32-34C( 89.6-93.2F) but with the bloody humidity it feels more like 44C or 111F. My glasses fog up and I have a hard time breathing…I hate this weather. Anyways, venture over to Curious As A Cathy who co-hosts Monday Music Moves Me…here are my choices:

1. STEAM HEAT SUNG BY CAROL HANEY WITH BUZZ MILLER AND KENNETH LEROY-1957


Carol Haney originated her role in the original Broadway version of “The Pajama Game” ( Shirley MacLaine was her understudy and was able to go on, one night, when Haney was ill, creating quite the splash starting her career) and kept her role for the film version starring Doris Day and John Raitt( yes, the dad of Bonnie Raitt). This is a great dance routine created by Bob Fosse who danced with Haney before in “Kiss Me, Kate”. Haney was a favourite of Gene Kelly who would dance with him in other films but, sadly she died of pneumonia at age 33 brought on by diabetes and alcoholism.

2. WE’RE HAVING A HEAT WAVE SUNG BY MARILYN MONROE-1954


I consider this one of the lesser versions of this classic song but Marilyn sounds like she’s in heat during a heatwave and, well, I have no idea why I said this because I just don’t think about lust when I am not in air conditioning ( thankfully, we have air air conditioning). The song was written by Irving Berlin and Monroe just can’t help singing it like this and she did sing but, from what I read, in my musical books, she sang the song ( all her songs even Dimonds are…) many times, and the editors pieced the best together so it sounds good all the way through. She wasn’t a bad singer, but she could hit some notes flat or slightly off so they had no choice but to piece it together. Carol Haney originated her role in the original Broadway version of “The Pajama Game” ( Shirley MacLaine was her understudy and was able to go on, one night, when Haney was ill, creating quite the splash starting her career) and kept her role for the film version starring Doris Day and John Raitt( yes, the dad of Bonnie Raitt). This is a great dance routine created by Bob Fosse who danced with Haney before in “Kiss Me, Kate”. Haney was a favourite of Gene Kelly who would dance with him in other films but, sadly she died of pneumonia at age 33 brought on by diabetes and alcoholism.

2. WE’RE HAVING A HEAT WAVE SUNG BY MARILYN MONROE-1954


I consider this one of the lesser versions of this classic song but Marilyn sounds like she’s in heat during a heatwave and, well, I have no idea why I said this because I just don’t think about lust when I am not in air conditioning ( thankfully, we have air air conditioning). The song was written by Irving Berlin and Monroe just can’t help singing it like this and she did sing but, from what I read, in my musical books, she sang the song ( all her songs even Dimonds are…) many times, and the editors pieced the best together so it sounds good all the way through. She wasn’t a bad singer, but she could hit a flat note or miss one.

3.  SUMMER IN THE CITY SUNG BY THE LOVIN’ SPOONFUL-1966


I have a feeling this will be popular, but this was the first song that came into my head and it is a classic song by this American-Canadian band that had a few great hits during the 60s. I always loved this song and seems to be perfect for a summer song.

What songs can you think of?


Thursday, August 7, 2025

Bad Relationships

 


I talked about bad relationships yesterday and decided to extend this to my film day. I hear about bad relationships just about every day, sadly, which is one of the main reasons people end up in financial hardship. My best friend went through an emotional and mentally abusive relationship with a classic narcissist and another dear friend, now, is going through a separation with a man who has narcissistic tendencies but shows more emotional avoidance personality. In both cases, it’s their wife’s fault, never them. Men have been abused as well because women can also be narcissistic as well. I’m surprised how many narcissists are out there, to be honest. I’m showcasing 3 films that came into my head and there are so many more that I could do this theme a few more times…

1. OF HUMAN BONDAGE-1934


The book is excellent and so is this early film that made a star out of Betty Davis playing the guttersnipe waitress that a young medical student, Leslie Howard, falls for. He has a club foot, who has been bullied for most of his life so when he meets this waitress he becomes enchanted with her, although you wonder why? She’s not a beauty, she is slutty and rude but he falls for her and she berates, bullies and is just a downright bitch to him but he can’t let her go. I know of a couple of men who have fallen for women tht I just think…what the Fu$@!? Bette actively campaigned for this role an, finally Jack Warner ( who would be sitting right beside Harvey Weinstein if he were alive today)  relented believing she would suck in the role..boy was he wrong! When she was not nominated, for the Oscar, due to Jack Warner’s interference, there was a huge write in campaign which got Bette the nomination( she didn’t win). Leslie Howard was a bit too old for the role of the medical student but he acted very well as the man who could not shake this woman even when he meets a lovely woman who treats him with the respect he deserves. It’s a worthy film and should be seen.

2. BORN YESTERDAY-1950


This comedy made a star out of Judy Holiday, and rightly so. She was in the Broadway version so she knew this character very well and won an Oscar for her portrayal of a “dumb” mistress of a loudmouth, narcissistic jerk who happens to be rich( remind you of anyone) Whois buying his way into politics. To keep his mistress out of his hair and give her some class, he hires a professor, played by William Holden, to teach her about literature, history, art and culture which she takes to like I take to anything chocolate or desserts. The more she learns, the more she sees what a jerk her boyfriend is. Broderick Crawford plays the lout and he is superb portraying this idiot that we underestimate, until we see how brutal he can be when he forces her to sign a form she refuses to. In a comedy, you don’t expect such a nasty scene, yet it is there and your heart goes out to her when she wants to do the right thing. It is well acted and captivating which is why I rewatched it again recently.

3. LOLITA-1962


This is a controversial film even by today’s standards directed by the great Stanley Kubrick, starring James Mason as a professor who marries a loudmouth woman, played by Shelly Winters, just to be close to her 12 yr old daughter, played by 13 yr old Sue Lyon. When Shelly read Mason’s diary finding out what he thinks of her and what he feels for her daughter which is not fatherly. Poor Shelly runs in front of a truck leaving James and Sue to behave, well, not in a father/daughter  way. When Peter Sellers enters the scene who has his own desires on little Sue, well, it seems to go from bad to worse. Now, you think that the Mason character as well as Sellers, to be the nasty men taking advantage of this poor girl, but who is being abused here? Sellers’ character is not very nice at all and Mason’s character is a complete jerk to Winters who is totally repulsed by her but marries her just to be close to the daughter creating sympathy for Winters. The person whom you feel the least sympathy for is the young Lolita who knows exactly what she is doing and leaves Mason distraught when she takes off on him, more than once. It is  a controversial film, even by today’s standards, but it is excellent. I just watched this film, about a month ago and, even though I won’t see it my time soon, it is a film worth seeing.

What films can you think of that meets this theme?

Wednesday, August 6, 2025

Relationships Gone Bad

 

In my job, one of the main reasons people claim bankruptcy or a Consumer Proposal is due to relationship breakdown. Yesterday, I spoke with a poor client who was beaten up by her spouse and she ended up in the hospital for 5 days where the cops came and charged her with abuse! To get away from the bastard, she bit his arm and he charged her. She moved out, but is living in her car with her 2 children waiting to get into a women’s shelter. She has retained legal aid and, to place icing on the cake, the doctors found out her cancer has returned with a cyst on her liver. 

One of my closest friends is going through a separation  and, eventually, divorce after 20 years.mi was her maid of honour and am surprised they lasted this long. She deserves better but she really tried, so hard, to make the marriage work with a man who is narcissistic plus has emotional issues. This made me think about songs regarding relationship breakdowns which is my own theme, this week over at Monday Music Moves Me and here we go..

1. WOULD I LIE TO YOU SUNG BY THE EURYTHEMICS -1985


I love this song by the Eurythmics about a woman who finds out her spouse is cheating on her. Annie Lennox sings her heart out as always. I saw them, at Canada’s Wonderland and, when she came out from behind the curtain singing this song in her black leather pants and a red bra, it brought the house down. One of the best concerts I have seen.

2. HIT ME WITH YOUR BEST SHOT SUNG BY PAT BENATAR-1980


Pat Benatar is an electrying singer with a pull no punches voice who often sang about women who have been abused or struggled in life but overcome all obstacles to become empowered and rise above their hardships. Pat Benatar actually was trained as a classically trained opera singer! My one friend loves her and has been to every concert she has been to when she was in Toronto.

2. PERSONAL JESUS SUNG BY DEPECHE MODE-1990


I love this song due to that constant beat which just, I find, primitive for some reason. They wrote this song after reading the book, “Elvis and Me” by Pricilla Pressley. How many people end up in a rebound relationship thinking the person they are now seeing is saving them when, in fact, they are often jumping from the frying pan into the fire. Other times, we have someone in our life, that is their own Jesus who truly, is there for their friend or, in some cases, their lover who is true. 

What songs do you think of when thinking of divorce or relationship breakdowns?

Tuesday, August 5, 2025

Star of the Month-James Coburn

 


JAMES COBURN

BIRTH: August 31, 1928

DEATH: November 18, 2002

AGED: 74 yrs

DIED FROM: Heart Attack, had Rheumatoid Arthritis 

MARRIED: 2 times

AFFAIRS: Lynsey De Paul plys many affairs during first marriage

CHILDREN: 2 kids

FAMOUS FRIENDS: Bruce Lee, Robert Vaughn, Sam Pekinpah

OSCAR WINS: 1 Best Supporting Actor for "Affliction"

TALENT: Played the flute. Songer and song writer with Lynsey De Paul- "Tigers and Fireflies"

KNOWN FOR: his bright and big teeth when he smiled. Card playing. Car racing, in fact, he owned a Ferrari Spyder that later was restored and sold for $10,894,400. Was a student of Bruce Lee in Martial Arts and was a pall bearer at Lee's funeral. Loved Tobetan Buddhism.

I always liked James Coburn who was a big star  for a brief time in the 1960s, but when he developed rheumatoid arthritis, the studios didn’t want to insure the actor or hire him. He started off in TV and had a very good career in TV before starring in film and came back to TV later on in his life. He could play a hard nosed cowboy as well as a hard nosed soldier but had fun playing a parody of James Bond in the 2 Flint movies ( based on the saying “In like Flynn” which was based on Errol Flynn’s sexual conquests). When he was married to his 1st wife, he did whore around and she took it until he asked for a divorce. Hell hath no fury and she took him for everything she could, I can’t really blame her to be honest. 

When he was going through this ugly divorce, the rheumatoid arthritis reared its ugly head and stress is one of the reasons for this arthritis to appear or become worse, not the only reason, but a big contributing factor. He suffered for years and was on many medications until he took MSM, an herbal supplement which severely curtailed his pain. At this time, no one wanted to hire him but Angela Lansbury came to his rescue and hired him. He often said, on talk shows, that she saved him in so many ways and he got his 2nd career back. He was, now, a character actor but this is when he won the Oscar and was doing really well since marrying a 2nd time. His wife stated he was playing the flute while they listened to music, when he suffered a major heart  attack and died in her arms ( she died 2 years later of cancer at just 48). He loved his cigars, but Rheumatoid Arthritis is known to attack other organs like the heart.  It came out later that he did partake in pot on a regular basis ( plus LSD and even, Cocaine on 1 occasion) and loved wearing those loosey caftans and liked to meditate and chill out. Quite a cool dude.

FILMS-I'm choosing my favourites first followed by some others

1. The Magnificent Seven-1960

2. Americanization of Emily-1964

3. A Fistful of Dynamite or Duck! You Sucker-1971

4. Maverick-1994

5. The Great Escape-1963 ( love this movie but he is supporting but love the character..maybe this should be #2)

6. Our Man Flint-1966

7. In Like Flint- 1967

8 . Cross of Iron-1977

9. Affliction-1997

10. A Reason to Live, A Reason to Die- 1972